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My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

14.06.2025 23:43

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Where there is abuse, there is no love. You can't be with a person who abuses. You have to leave him without a second thought. Block him. Focus on moving on and healing. Getting over abusive relationships will take time.

Your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings; he gets angry because he can't control his emotions when something doesn't go his way. He doesn't even understand that you are going through pain. When you cry, he manages the situation by saying he loves you.

Accept the fact your boyfriend doesn't love you. Your boyfriend is abusive and doesn't have the capacity to love. He says he loves you because it's easier for him to say it by words than to prove it by actions.

I caught my husband of 20 years looking at inappropriate pics of women on TikTok or Instagram. I'm not sure., but when I told him he got mad and made excuses of why they popped up. I then told him how I've snuck on his phone and saw what he's been looking at . We had a horrible big fight. I asked him why did he even marry me when I see the type he likes . Nothing like me, I'm petite, blonde and blue eyes. These women are dark haired dark eyed and have curvy bodies, large breasts, etc. I just don't feel the same about him after this. I can't get over this